MY JOURNEY

MY JOURNEY
SOMETIMES YOU REALLY DO HAVE TO DO IT WRONG TO FINALLY GET IT RIGHT.

Thursday, May 30, 2013



Follow Detective Trudy Wagner as introduced in Road Rage and reprising her role in North of the Border. Contact me @ tallenwinn@mail.com or @ tallenwinn via Facebook, if you desire signed copies of either or both. "Great Summer Reading"
If you have read either, I welcome your comments.


Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Check out the Beach Author Network blog: http://beachauthornetwork.blogspot.com
We're presently featuring Robert (Bob) O'Brien's novel, The Toppled Pawn, another Prose Press classic.
I've read this dozzy and it's tough to add to the great review Mary Anne Benedetto has already written and posted on my blog so I'll add my spin.

May, two years ago, shortly after I arrived home from work one afternoon, the doorbell rang and my wife said someone was at the door to see me. I recognized the man standing there clutching a book, having seen him walking his dog in the afternoon. He introduced himself as Bob O'Brien and looked puzzled. He commented 'you're not Mister O'Neil.' We had bought the house from the O'Neils a year ago. He apoligized and was about the excuse himself, saying he had just published his first novel, The Toppled Pawn, and said O'Neil had been interested in writing a novel so he just wanted to show him it was possible. I told him that was interesting; I dabble in writing. He asked if I had a manuscript. I told him I had ten. He then said that he and I needed to talk. He had started a publishing company, Prose Press and stated we needed to get me published.
Okay, not one to ignone signs, I looked over at my wife and said what are the odds of a publisher coming to your front door, looking for another man who also was interested in writing a novel and finding me instead. You can't ignore things like this. Road Rage saw the light of day several months later. He left the copy of the Toppled Pawn with me and read it cover to cover and was impressed by his, as he called it, scribling.
I became a published author from that chance meeting but more priceless, I made a lifelong friendship.


Bob's novel can be purchased  @Amazon or Barnes and Noble.


  And if you have a story worth publishing, contact Bob. He has assisted us hungry authors in publishing about twenty books so far.

http://www.prosepress.biz
Prose Press    843-237-9929

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Detective Trudy Wagner, with the Road Rage serial killings in her rearview mirror, she prepares to tackle the next evil doer stalking folks along the grand strand.

Detective Trudy Wagner, with the Road Rage ser

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Another good review for The Caregiver's Son, Outside the Window Looking In; Thanks Pat


I got my books and could not put the "caregiver" down.  Finished it in one day.  It is so interesting reading about people you know and of course knowing the author.  I have experienced so many of the same feelings dealing with my parents sickness and death, especially my mom.  She had Alzheimer's also and My aunt Mag ( Bowie) lived with her and took care of her.  I have a lot of guilt because I didn't do as much as I should have.  My brother, Dennis, lived in Abbeville also and I justified my not going as often as I should because he was already there.  I could relate so well to your feelings.  I think that is one reason I could not put the book down.  Also, of course I remember your parents but I remember mr. John and mrs. Ruby as well.  I did not know the deaths were so close together.  I talked to De last night and he remembered it well.  You need to keep writing so I can keep reading.

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

From Whomping the Golf Ball keg, draft from the cellar...drink up and enjoy...

Cold Beer!!!

Adult beverages and golf seem to go hand in hand, especially for the Whomping adults. I must admit, in my younger days I would partake of a couple or six cold ones during a round. I somehow convinced myself that I required a couple of beers to settle me down so I’d play better. The scorecard didn’t indicate that this strategy worked very well. Finally I realized that it did nothing to improve my striking ability nor reduced my scores so I seldom drink anything stronger than a Gatorade now. Older and wiser I suppose.
             I have discovered that the price of admission equals the entertainment value because many of my Whomper buddies do indulge themselves. This can make for an interesting round, at least for me. Their creed, it is beer-thirty somewhere rings true because they can pop a top at 7:30 AM as easily as they can reach for a cold one in the PM venue. They put a new spin on designated drivers.
            Most courses now prohibit personal coolers. Not to worry, most golf bags come with a built in cooler compartment. Technology will overcome the challenges; sort of like radar and radar detectors. The system is destined to be beaten! Everyone profits. Golf = adult beverages = more beer sales = golfers making bad shots = purchasing more golf balls = more beer purchases = more rounds of golf = more beer, you get the picture!
            I have a cousin, aka Cuz, who can be heard yelling “Cold Beer” as he maneuvers down the fairways. Cuz can chugalug with the best of them. Does it impact his game better or worse? Who can say? He’s having a good time and that’s important to him. It doesn’t impact my play so that’s important to me.
            Adult beverages, as One of our Whomper buddies transforms into Mike Tyson  and tries to pick fights, instigate conflicts with other foursomes, especially if they’re ahead and playing too slowly or its tournament play and he thinks the other team may be cheating. This can be most embarrassing but does add entertainment value.
            I witnessed one of my buds go Tin Cup down in the Dominican Republic after too many El President Beers. He sliced his first tee shot on number eighteen across the resort entrance drive. Determination instilled by not so clear thinking, he teed up at least six or seven more balls slicing all but one into the exotic landscape. Mission accomplished when one finally stayed in the fairway.
He retired to the resort’s pool for the remainder of the afternoon. I think the water stabilized his stumbling as he made frequent visits to the swim-up bar.  Drinks were included in the all inclusive stay so should a say more? Funny, I drank bottled water during the round and ended up being the one who got deathly sick that night; too much sun and not enough adult beverages!
            Why does cold beer seem to convince people they can all of a sudden sing? A couple of my Whomper buddies after consumption of a beer or five will begin singing very strange tunes, “In heaven there ain’t no beer…”  One sings about coal miners doing weird stuff. Their antics seem sort of red-neckish but both are actually transplanted Yankees. Go figure. It can drive one to drink just to cope with the attempted tunes.
            Wagering and beer, know that you have at least a chance of winning before you throw down the bet. One of our little green horn Whompers of let’s just say typical three digit range scoring, tied another bud on the first nine. To put it in perspective, bud number two wasn’t having his best front nine and had shot a fifty. Green horn matching that fifty felt a little frisky apparently. Cockiness is not very pretty unless you can back it up. He wagered he’d kick our buddy’s rear end on the back nine for a case of beer. How’d that go you ask? Not so good!  Green horn didn’t realize that beer was a motivator and lost the back nine by ten strokes. Beer consumption may or may not have played a factor in the original wager.
            Never let a beer drinker hold the closest to the pin pot when chipping in a buck per person. This mistake was made when the league recruited one of our female competitors to hold the money for the 5 foursome’s competing. Running out of beer half way through the round, she used the kitty money to further the beverage girl’s career.  Remember, the beverage girl is not cheap. Award time arrived after the last group completed the round and only thee bucks remained of the twenty dollar prize. She smiled and shrugged her shoulders.
            I’m been tossed from cart before with cooler in tow when my not so designated driver made a radical left maneuver. I’ve witnessed one Whomper whiff so many consecutive times at a ball that he resembled a windmill. He responded by falling on his duff and erupting into a contagious spurt of laughter.
 I too have contributed to my share of ungentlemanly like behavior on the links but what happens on the course, stays on the course especially when I’m the culprit. Since none of my Whomper buddies are writers and you don’t know their names, guess these will remain my little secret. COLD BEER…..

Whomping the Ball, from the vault...

Hey Mr. Ranger, Where’s Yogi?


The golf ranger on any given course typically oozes a persona, better or worse than the average bear, right, Boo-Boo? Mr. Ranger might be the time keeper from hell, relentlessly reminding ones group to keep up the pace or he may possess excellent people skills making it simply a joy to play the course. I’ve experienced both Jekyll and Hyde.
           A good starter sets the tone of the round ahead. Mr. Ranger, now the enforcer of the rules, does the checks and balances after you depart the first tee box.  So now we have Mr. Ranger making rounds as does the beverage wench.  Why not combine these jobs and call her the Rescue Ranger. She can cater to your needs and ensure you are in compliance with the rules, speed of play. Unfortunately, if she’s a hard body little co-ed, she’ll contribute to slower play because many whompers will make a purchase just to expel some testosterone, whether they actually need anything or not.
           As mentioned, Mr. Ranger’s main objective is to keep us moving. Quipping 15 minutes per hole as he passes, he encourages us to speed up play. Now, I almost always have at least one anal retentive player in my group, and sometimes two. Sorry, 15 minutes ain’t going to happen. We were instructed by Mister Ranger during a recent round to speed it up when the group behind us trailed us by at least 1 ½ holes. Mr. Ranger, I fear, sometimes just had to feel his oats. Oh yea, and what are you writing on that clipboard of yours?
           Becoming frustrated with slow play because of the group ahead of us, we corralled MR. Ranger, Sir, during his next drive by and complained. He stated he could do nothing because they were course members and always played slow. We rebutted, if things got any slower, we’d be an eight-some. There are exceptions to The Rules, the membership clause #3.2.1. The beverage wench reinforced our wear-it-on-our-sleeves aggravation on her next round stating, bless your hearts guys, you’re behind them. They hold up everyone. May I offer you an adult beverage to offset your stress?
           One of the nicer courses we have played, The Myrtle Beach National, Kings North has huge Big Ben clocks mounted on post at every tee box to help pace your round. Kind of like those signs stating You Are Here. Do they really work? Not without Mr. Ranger riding rough shot.
           During a round at Island Green Golf Course, Mr. Ranger, we remarked about the group playing ahead of us from the Blue tees being worse hackers than us and we were playing from the Whites. Our comments immediately triggered flash backs as he shared experiences rounds past. A previous Blue Man Crew hacked their way from one tee box to the next. Observing this phenomenon, Mr. Ranger intercepted them on the next Blue tees and abruptly explains the terms of their continued play.
           “If you can’t strike the ball any better than that off the blues, move up to the whites and you better be on the whites when I make my next round. If you suck there too then I moving you to the gold tees. Flounder there and the Reds are all that’s left and that will require a quick surgical procedure that I am both obligated and qualified to perform on each and every one of you. Now, please enjoy the course and have fun.”       
           Mr. Ranger approached, never gave an inch and forced both carts off the cart path to avoid a head on. Nodding he passed as if we were the lowest on the food chain. Guess what Mr. Ranger, we’re just paying customers. Why should we move out of your way? Cart path only apparently only applies to Mr. Texas Ranger, Sir, and we were forced to utilize the 90 degree rule. Hindsight, we had two carts to his one and should have played chicken with him. By the way, why didn’t you warn us about that twelve foot gator in the pond on that last par three?
           The rangers are always trying to get more of my money with these Par Three contest. Hit the green and double your money. Doubling your money interpreted; we’ll give you Monopoly money to purchase merchandise from the club house. No second mortgage required on any purchases. First, I haven’t hit a green all day unless you count that green townhouse on number twelve. My earnings wouldn’t equate to the purchase of a bag of log tees. Hope you just give me a sleeve of balls and let’s call it even?
           Why aren’t there any rangers on a Par Three golf course? Speed is a bigger deal because you’re walking most of these. And believe me, some folks are not built right to walk nine holes carrying their clubs or pulling them. I can almost hear him yelling, “Hey fat boy, you’re going to have to pick up that pace or we’ll going to have to restrict you to the putting green!”
           Driving ranges; where are the Rangers. What’s a range without a ranger? What would life be with Mr. Ranger riding the range? “If you can’t hit the ball further than ten feet, you’re forfeiting that bucket to the next paying customer. Hit one more condo and you’re banded for life, buck-a-roo.  No, you can’t retrieve those balls. Tee pad only! 90 degree rule, do not, I repeat, do not hit your fellow practicing mate.”
           Mr. Ranger, there’s a Jelly Stone Park Resort out there somewhere screaming your name. And I heard him exclaim as he made his rounds, “Sorry, no pick-a-nic baskets allowed on the course, slows down the play”.             
From Whomping the Golf Ball archives...

My Cheap Golf Date

Playing the game of golf, one fantasizes about having that perfect partner. We pray for that special someone who can compliment our game and bring pure pleasure to a round on the links. A wife that loves to play the game can be an added bonus; especially if the two of you can leave the home and work grind behind to focus on the eighteen holes ahead. This is a rare find for most of us and is better left alone if your significant other doesn’t share the same passion for the game.
We count on our favorite playing buds always being available for a round but often they can’t obtain a golfing kitchen pass from that significant other. What does one do to prevent those unfortunate pairings with strangers? Sadly, there’s no such thing as a rent-a-partner or is there?  Nah, let’s not go there.
I offer a simple solution. Do you have a child that loves to whack the little white ball around and can maintain the pace required to not agitate those groups trailing you? Or better still, do you have a grandchild that lives close by that can be borrowed for the afternoon, no deposit required?
In my case, I have a twelve year old grandson that simply loves the game. He has his own clubs, balls, tees and a trend setting wardrobe. My grandson will play anytime I ask him. Heck, he would play every day if I’d take him. I must not give in to that temptation even for the love of a grandchild. Others just wouldn’t quite buy into the concept.   
What makes taking my grandson such a sweet deal is that he plays free on many of the Grand Strand courses. Old grandpa doesn’t take the wallet hit for bringing him along if I play my cards right. I’ve learned to shop around because many courses will allow juniors under the age of fifteen to play free or charge only the cart fee with a paying adult. I refer to my grandson as My Cheap Golf Date.
 To ensure he maintains his cheap status, I always make sure we take our own bottled drinks and a plentiful assortment of snacks so there’s no cause to hassle the beverage cart girl. Even with his cheeks stuffed with cheese puffs, his eyes light up as she approaches in her motorized chuck wagon. He treasures her strictly for her snack value. I try to distract him when I see her approaching because little blue eyes has this gift for pulling off the perfect con to access my wallet. Best laid plans foiled again as I fall under his spell.
I play after work on Wednesdays with my co-workers at the Quail Creek Golf Course and My Cheap Golf Date so happens to reside adjacent to the seventh fairway. Hawkeye spotted me passing through his neighborhood one afternoon on my way to the course. He followed me on his bicycle in hot pursuit to the clubhouse.
Picture this. Here I am with my three Golfing buddies unloading our clubs and changing shoes when he peddles up. For the record, he is not shy by a long stretch. He has this uncanny gift of gab capable of luring you into his web before you realize you’re entangled.   
As he shakes my partners’ hands, he introduces himself as what else, My Cheap Golf Date. They howled and I had to do some quick explaining. He’s a charmer and knows how to work the crowd for sure. He can milk a moment and quickly took center stage working his magic. In the day, he could have passed for a snake oil peddler. Those blue eyes can also transform him into the perfect little gigolo with the female persuasion but that’s a story all by itself.    
Being an avid Clemson Tiger fan, he eyed the orange tiger paws on one of my partner’s golf bags. Working his southern charm he soon had been rewarded with a Clemson Tiger club head cover from my partner. My unsuspecting playing buddy never saw it coming. He coughed it up to the little con artist unable to control his actions. Needless to say after that performance during his little cameo appearance, I invited My Cheap Golf Date to join me the following Wednesday because Quail Creek doesn’t charge juniors to play their course. Besides, he attended a summer golf program there and knows all of his victims, I mean the employees, by name.
His older brother had previously held the position as my original Cheap Golf Date until he accompanied me for a round of golf at The International Golf Club. The course did not charge for kids under fifteen with a paying adult. Paying adult, that would be me. That particular August afternoon the temperature topped the heat index at 113 degrees. We hunkered down and survived the eighteen holes, but I could never convince him to play with old grandpa after that hot round, temperature and not necessarily the scores.
As I recall, he gave up the game after that memorable round and I don’t believe he has ever picked up his clubs since. While he’s no longer my Cheap Golf Date, I am proud of him just the same. He now plays with the Carolina Forest high school band and performs with their show choir. He successfully threw his brother under the bus so he could side step any future invites from old granddad. He’s happy, his little brother is happy and I still have a Cheap Golf Date to carry on the tradition. His wisdom made all of us winners.
I did ask their mom what I was going to do after the younger one reached fifteen. She laughed and told me I was on my own with that one. She added that there would not be a third grandchild in hers or my future.
A round of golf, $41.50; snacks from home, $5.50,  purchased hotdog and a soda for old blue eyes, $8.50, My Cheap Golf Date, priceless and still cheap… 

My cheap golf date is now a teenager with a driver license and no longer cheap...free rounds long gone. He's moved on to bigger and better things, leaving old grandpa behind. He's singing and dancing and performing on the stage. I'm beaming with pride, watching him ace his new passion.

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Giving back to the community; I'm a guest at Conway's Blackwater Middle School Friday morning, May 17th for career day. Glad I still have a day job so I can afford being an author and speaker.

To support my expensive hobby I actually sell my books. To keep an author gainfully unemployed in the writing world you can contact T. Allen Winn via Facebook or @ email tallenwinn@mail.com to arrange purchases of your favorite novels.

New Releases:

North of the Border, 2nd in the Detective Trudy Wagner series @ $15 ea.
The Caregiver's Son, Outside the Window Looking In (non-fiction, my story) @ $14

$12 ea. or two for $20:

Road Rage (introducing Detective Trudy Wagner in her first grand strand thriller)
Dark Thirty (Dale Thomas Jackson, witih friends Debra and Ted, take on the bullies)

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

More raves for new book release, The Caregiver's Son, Outside the Window Looking In:

Want a copy? Go to Amazon or Barnes and Noble and type T. Allen Winn in the search window to get yours. http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_sabc?url=search-alias%3Daps&pageMinusResults=1&suo=1368056150640#/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=T.%20Allen%20Winn&sprefix=T.+Al%2Caps&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3AT.%20Allen%20Winn



Tom,
I have started reading your book. There are things you say in there that I have laughed so hard at. You are a hoot! Anxious to read some more.
Debbie


Tom Winn
I just finished reading "The Caregiver's Son" & I want to tell you great job!! The last 50 or so pages,I've had goose bumps, burning eyes, tears starting to fall as I was along the journey with you. Thank you for this look into caregivers' lives. Many of us have had or will have this come into our lives. Keep up the writing; I'm looking forward to reading more of your musings!!


Subject: The Caregiver's Son

T. Allen:

Almost read your book at one sitting yesterday, but actually finished the last chapter and short story after Lilly Grace Davis was born (8#1oz / 20" long).

Knowing you as long as I have, the story struck a lot of familiar chords, but sure filled in a lot of blanks for me...good blanks, rich blanks, gaps that help me gain understanding and texture about your life.

So much of "getting" life is understanding how the Lord is so much more interested in shaping our character than He is in our comfort. Your story, especially the 11 month "caregivers boot camp" is a touching and well drawn "slice of life" that touches a friend like me or any reader starting that "3rd and final act" of the play.

How we try to balance the "living for ourselves" with "living for those that need us" is what defines a man in the end I guess - but we can over agonize about what we think we should do! Understanding and accepting God's Grace has a lot to do with how we find and make peace with life.

A Caregiver's Son helps us "less than fully motivated Caregivers" the direction and "kick in the pants" we often need.

Thanks for a good read that leaves the reader feeling better after reading it. Your "therapy" is every readers gain!

Your buddy...

Kirk

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Reviews/Comments about T. Allen Winn’s memoir, The Caregiver’s Son, Outside the Window Looking In

Faith Kidd Wilson Finished the book....you put your heart on your sleeve writing your story like that, you wouldn't believe at how many of us can understand, having mixed emotions regarding those we love. By the way, I also enjoyed the short story, I know you had your papa in mind when you wrote it. Now on to the next book "North of the Border". As president of the fan club :) I encourage you to read the most recent releases of two of Tom Winn's books. "The Care Giver's Son" and "North of the Border." Both great books!


Dawn Faulkner Simpson Almost finished with "The Care Giver's Son", can't put it down also. I loved every word about your Dad and his golfing. It brought back so many good memories of playing with he and Grier @ High Meadows. Wonderful book!!!!

Tom, finished the Caregivers Son it was great. .You discovered like me a lot about yourself and life ;.It comes from living life, it's not always what we want but we get through it ..Everyone deals with things in different ways, because every one is different and yet all the same in others .Great job my friend !

MaryBeth Ware Peck So good to see you & Judy on Saturday, Tommy!! I've started "The Caregiver's Son" & I just KNOW it's gonna make me cry!! Oh well!! It happens!